3 “Must Avoid” Ways You Are Sabotaging Your Own Success by African Oscar Winning Storyteller

Welcome to Warrior Wednesday: There is incredible power in our tongues.  There are many ways we can sabotage our own success but through it all, there are 3 “must avoid” ways we must be aware of.
I have often been told especially by my parents to watch what I say, so not to invite “trouble” into my life. And as many times as I have heard them say it, I have defied them until….Listen Here                                                                                
                                         
                                                
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On this blog/ podcast, you will find out the 3 Ways you are sabotaging your own success. And perhaps you will take heed to avoid them, so your success can finally be unleashed. regardless of the type of success you are seeking, whether you are a professional, or a business owner; we all desire to SUCCEED!

I have had the privilege of mentoring many. And throughout my mentoring, there are certain habits which hold true to those who discovered that they are self sabotaging.

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Here are the 3 Ways:
(1) Using hurtful and self-defeating words against our own destiny/ life journey will only lead you to exactly what you said!
If you are constantly saying that you will never make it, well, do not be surprised if you indeed “never make it in life!” While it is real that we are struggling on a daily basis, it is important that we do not add more “drama” to what we are already going through with the words of our mouth.
What happens when you speak evil on your own self?
You relinquish your power! And allow the negative forces around you to take over your life!

(2) Being prideful and haughty are fruits of self-sabotage.
When you are constantly thinking you are the only one with the answers; when you look down on others, even in your own unstable condition; all you are doing is destroying your own ability to prosper or succeed.

Why? You are spending more time digging into other people’s’ business and not spending enough time understanding what may be going on in your own circumstances.

(3) Not listening to advice will only lead you on a road to self-sabotage! There is wisdom in a multitude of strong mentors advising you. And like the common saying “No man is an island”. You have spent all these years trying to do things your own way. Perhaps, it is now time to “fess up”, remove the veil/mask and let others in to help you.

        “You have a Choice with our Own Words: To Speak Life or Death! It is up to you what you choose. Choose wisely, so you can move forward in what you are created to be.”
TWEET QUOTE ~ Dr. Princess Fumi S. Hancock, RN

We must be careful to say what we mean, when we mean it and be careful to use words that will empower us and others around us. Regardless of what we may be going through in life, it is essential that we are mindful of our surroundings and learn to be the best we can, do the best we can, and allow words to heal rather than cause pain on ourselves and others around us.

Here is my question for you today~ What ways have you used hurtful words against yourself or others? Share your answers with me on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn.

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Dr. Princess Fumi S. Hancock, RN, DNP.
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Princess Fumi Hancock is the Princess of Suburbia®, a bestselling author, African Oscar-winning Storyteller, Speaker, TV & Radio Host, and a Dreamweaver (President, Let’s Go Innovate ™ & Adassa Adumori Foundation). She is also the Creator of The SUCCESS LAUNCH BLUEPRINT & YOUR INNER YOU, a program & blog which help her clients to discover, ignite, launch and turn their passion into profit, fearlessly without going broke!. Princess Fumi is also the Ringleader of the Southern Warrior Sisters Tribe. Follow her blog and get an early start at boosting your self-esteem for successful living while employing successful tips for maximizing your career or business. Connect with Princess Fumi on Twitter, Facebook, Blog, 5 Minute Success Blueprint Podcast, Radio, and YouTube Channel.

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Blessed is she who has believed that what the Lord has said to her will be accomplished!" Luke 1:45
Yolanda Conley Shields is CEO of Youth Life Foundation (USA).  She is also Vice President and co-founder of the Adassa Adumori Foundation (USA) which does community development work in the continent of Africa and other 3^rd World Countries.  She is a much sought after speaker and trainer in the area of business development, and social entrepreneurship and has traveled extensively throughout the United Sates, France and Africa.  She has 20+yrs. In the area of Fund Development, Celeb Charity Management, International Community Development, Trainer, and Founder of Let's Go Innovate ™ where she is a Success Coach, Speaker, TV Host. She has earned a B.S. in Education and Social Work (APSU) and M.S. in Business/Non-Profit Management.  Has several certifications in the area of grant writing, nonprofit management and fundraising.   She has been appointed by Tennessee Governor Bill Haslam to the Labor and Workforce Development Board for the State of Tennessee and Chairs the Continuous Improvement committee.   

For many years she has devoted her life to helping others, so it’s no surprise that she is seen as a gifted leader and advocate.  She has assisted over 20 corporations in the areas of strategic planning, media relations, business operations and development, board development, celebrity charity management, community collaboration, and organizational sustainability.   She has worked with such celebrities as CeCe Winans, Darrell Green, Art Monk, Tony Boselli, and many others.  She desires to serve with integrity and leaves nothing less than a trail of excellence wherever she’s involved.

For over 20 years Yolanda Shields a Nashville native has been inspiring individuals and corporations to make effective Philanthropic investments in the community. She believes that her for-profit businesses can help fund her philanthropic endeavors.  Yolanda says “that God has gifted us to be able to help others”. 

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Two of her favorite quotes are:
I absolutely believe in the power of tithing and giving back. My own experience about all the blessings I've had in my life is that the more I give away, the more that comes back. That is the way life works, and that is the way energy works. Ken Blanchard


Is the rich world aware of how four billion of the six billion live? If we were aware, we would want to help out, we'd want to get involved.
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Yolanda Conley Shields has served as a consultant to numerous celebrity foundations and charity initiatives, as well as strategic philanthropic planning for over 20 nonprofit and for-profit corporations. Yolanda Shields, a tireless and passionate advocate for children, serving as a member of the Mayor Karl Dean’s Youth Task Force, board member of the National Christian Foundation (Nashville Affiliate), Member of American Association of Grant Professional, EwomenNetwork, CABLE (Women Networking Group), WIN (Nashville -Women Networking Group), Nashville Afterschool Zone Alliance Training Council, Vice-President of the Adassa-Adumori Foundation.  You can reach her on Twitter and facebook.